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Our brain is like that, he keeps things in his own way

Whether in a bar or during a first appointment, you will need to do to grow the trust as sharing of experiencesWhere many men get it wrong is that they think that an hour spent doing such activity is the equivalent of an hour spent to make such other and this is simply not the case. Depending on what you do sets, you will knowledge more or less quickly.

So, I asked myself the question: how to get acquainted with a girl more quickly.

I give it to you in a thousand: the fastest way to get to know a girl is to spend time with her in different environments. This means that if you have talked for an hour in a bar, you will deepen your connection faster taking her to sit on a bench a quarter of an hour only by remaining in the bar for more than an hour. The reason for this.

Start by selecting several locations and spend less time

People behave differently in different environments, and you will discover new facets of his personality in a quieter location.

It is for this reason that we have the impression that time passes more quickly when we are having fun. So a way to have seem to have spent more time together would be to get bored not terrible. But what do you say to that: our brain also has the impression that a period of time is more long if it sees different environments. In other words, if you spend two hours in a cafe with someone, you'll feel like you spent less time with this person than if you had spent two times an hour in two different coffees. The change of scenery gives the impression to your brain that you have had two experiences different with this person, even without spend more time together. You would be surprised to know all that you can learn on a girl during a first date if you know how to take you there. As a first appointment is for a limited time, try to make it count each minute to create the time, the more dense as possible.

According to my experiments, the magic number is three.

With three locations, you can easily switch from one to the other without too much hustle, while maintaining a constant variety and giving your brain different experiences to save. Or: go out for a drink, take her there and dance will you lay quietly on the docks. If you want to learn more about this technique, you can go and read my free guide on first dates. This method does not apply to the first appointments that you schedule in advance. You can also apply it just after having addressed a girl. The idea is simple, after a few minutes, invite him to go somewhere with you instead of taking directly the number. In general, I invite him to take a coffee and if it's not in a hurry and that she loves me, she will accept.

The key aspect is that it does not commit anything: this is still a public place and she knows that she can leave at any time.

It goes without saying that it is much more likely to respond favorably when I remember, now that I'm not just a guy with who she talked to once I am a guy with whom she is sitting in a coffee shop. And this is no more complicated than asking. If she refuses, I can just say,"I understand, you're in a hurry. Good listening, I'll take your number and we can do this some other time". Simple, effective, and ultimately much more pleasant than talking to five minutes and walk away with the number in the pocket. Cornelius was a geeky virgin that no technique of seduction never seemed to be able to save. Until one day he discovered that the best way to become a seducer was to develop his courage and his sense of humor. Now, it teaches men to transform their lives with the same method on his site Seduction Academy, and in his course of seduction free.